Let Go!

Let Go!

Yes, He’s/she’s a sucker- you think

I agree he’s/she’s a vampire that ripped off your heart

And also a thief cos he/she stole it away too

But it’s about time you moved on – not for age but for life

First, you need to get your heart back

And then you need to stop looking back

Are you being hateful, expectant or simply regretful?

You can’t keep looking back and try to move forward – YOU WILL ONLY STAND STILL

You are ‘still’ because you are still mindful of the past

Please I disagree- there is no one man for one woman

Elijah is tired? Well, there are 10,000 prophets who haven’t bowed to Baal. And  erm… the new guy - Elisha got double (anointing).  Hello!

If you are focused on the ugly of the past, you will not see good

If you are focused on the old good that’s gone, you can’t see new good – i.e better

Many a good men have been around you but you couldn’t see

“Love/Relationship with a particular person is not by force. No man has authority over another man’s life. God gave man dominion over other creations but not man. Nobody owns anyone”

These were words of my pastor from the pulpit. Oh, how I fought it and struggled with it. But I learnt. I learnt the hard way.

Once a friend told me, “Only God is do or die”. He’s right, ‘Only God is do or die’

Yeah, I used to think the best revenge you can have is to go do so well and be better. Then show up later to taunt and say “Look how I’ve turned out. Better than where you left me.”

Now I know the best revenge I can have is to seek no revenge at all  

But to move on and live my life.  Live a life of purpose. Be free. Be beautiful. Be sexy (very essential), Be happy, maybe rebellious, and not give ‘2’- at all.

Yes, some of us can be very committed, loyal and focused. We are the one way type

We don’t find it easy to jump from relationship to relationship

We just want to love and be loved,

We say:“I’ve known no other, I’ve loved no other. I don’t want any other but him/her”

Well, sh*t happens (Sorry I swore)

But then you have to be strong

It is forbidden you carry that wound, hole, tie, or string into the next relationship, talk less marriage

These ‘demons’ will appear, especially at night ...

They will haunt you…make you misbehave and unattractive to your partner hence he flees

Maybe you need to heal, may be you need to fill that hole, maybe you need a knife- to cut the tie

Whatever you have to do, do to move on!

Forgive for you

For-GIVE. Give. Let Go.

Move…On

On to better

You’ll have better

Stagnant water stinks

Refresh your soul. Renew your mind. Refresh Indeed.

Bathe, Perfume, get some new clothes- sexy new clothes (very essential)

I am free. Don’t you want to be too?